Most men are not confused about how to meet women. They are confused about who they are allowed to be while doing it.
Modern dating culture teaches men to hide intent, manage perception, and withhold clarity in order to remain interesting. The result is a strange theater in which neither person feels fully seen. This is explored in more detail in Why Dating Advice Fails Men
Games emerge when honesty feels risky.
Meeting women without games begins with allowing yourself to be known. This is explored in more detail in Confidence Is Not Performance
Clarity is attractive because it reduces noise.
Games disappear when a man no longer needs to win.
Courtship without games involves initiative, risk, and the willingness to hear no — but not the performance of desire.
In the absence of games, dating becomes simpler.